Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Off to the Children's Museum- Day 2

If you are ever in Indianapolis the Children's museum is a place that is not to be missed.  While I have heard from some family members that they have gone without children, I am not sure I would say it is THAT incredible, but it is definitely one of the best Children's museums I have ever seen!

 

Before we even started in the actual museum we checked out their new sports museum section.  For Matthew and Jacob this meant over an hour of basketball statistics, basketball shooting, and seeing some incredible basketball paraphernalia.  For David and me it meant looking at the nascar and Indy 500 cars and checking out all of the other cool sports information that had been gathered and was on display in this section of the museum.

One of the best parts of this section was that they had a place where you could try your hand at being on the "pit crew" for a race car.  While we had a blast taking off the tires, filling the gas and putting the tires back on, and trying to race the clock, my favorite part was truly watching dads and their preschoolers trying to do this together.  The clock showed the best time of the day- under 10 seconds......however, this does not show that these tasks were done RIGHT in 10 seconds, or done WELL in 10 seconds, it just shows that they were done in 10 seconds.  It was awesome to watch a group of dads get their testosterone in a bother as they tried to help their little one beat the 10 second top time of the day.  (spoiler alert.....it wasn't possible!)

After our time in the sports section we were off to check out the dinosaur exhibit.  This was an incredibly well done exhibit. They mixed dinosaur models with hands on dinosaur digs, and scientists who were there to meet and talk to the kids.  We met a museum staff member who was from East Greenbush, NY who was cleaning an actual dinosaur bone.
I am not sure who was more intrigued by this, Jacob or me!  Truly he and I stood there for over a half an hour and must have asked 6 times whether it was a REAL dinosaur bone or just a fake one!  The scientist pretended each time not to be annoyed by our question, but after we asked 6 times I got the hint that it was time to keep on moving!

After the dinosaurs, it was off to check out the second floor of the museum!  I could not believe it was past 12:30 and we only had 4 hours to finish 3 more floors of the museum~!!!

One of my favorite parts of the museum was they had a section that was devoted to children who made changes in the world.  The section included Anne Frank, Ruby Bridges and one of my favorite children heroes ever, Ryan White.  You might remember that Ryan White was a young teenager with Hemophelia who was diagnosed with HIV in the late 80's. 

His story always touched my heart and so to see his story in this museum was very  powerful to me.  The boys went off to check out the race car exhibit which was next door while I took a some time reading through Ryan White's story, seeing the items of his that are showcased in the museum and just going back to that time in our history when a teenager having HIV was the major news.  In some ways that seems like such a powerful contrast to our teenagers today.  Today, teens are so accepting of bisexual, transgendered and openly gay peers at least in the North East, and yet there are still school shootings which are occurring on an almost daily basis across the US.  We have come so far, and yet we have so far to go.

We finished the museum on the 4th floor where Matthew fell in love with the exhibit on China!

David found his favorite spot also on the 4th floor, the water table.  There is something simply peaceful and relaxing about playing in a humongous table of water.  As you build the barrier, then open it and the water rushes down.....it was such an incredibly peaceful way to play.  After a busy day at a museum, for David the water table was the perfect ending!

As the museum was closing, we headed back one more time to see the sports exhibit.  I decided I had to try my hand at a basketball shoot out with the boys.  I am pretty sure I made the day of one of the dad's when I beat Jacob by 6 points and hooted and hollered with excitement.  (winning with grace is a skill I am still working on).

We ended our day back at the hotel once again hanging out and enjoying some pool time.  Matthew decided he was "too cool for the pool" and instead hung out in the lobby.  Only Matthew could make friends with a guy who lived at the hotel.  He of course got the entire story of this man's life.....the man was living at the hotel for 2 years while he was working in town.  Matthew has decided that this sounds like the perfect life....in all honesty, it sounds pretty ok to me too. This hotel included a hot breakfast daily, AND a free cocktail hour each night.....AND someone else cleaned the room each day.  ( remind me why we came home again???????)

Jacob convinced me that we had to carry on our nightly tradition of Steak and Shake milkshakes so in the pouring rain I went out for milkshakes for the boys.  It became a fabulous way to end our nights, hitting the pool, milkshakes all around and then falling asleep excited for the adventure of the next day!




  

Sunday, April 8, 2018

Indianapolis......for vacation?

This past week was spring break and our family was headed to Indianapolis.  We had plane tickets that had to be used, and so I gave the boys the chance to pick a place that they wanted to go and then started looking for a flight to get us there that didn't cost any more than the plane tickets.  Jacob was born in Indiana and felt strongly that he needed to go back to see Indiana.  It sounded like a perfect adventure, tickets were purchased and we were off!

On our itinerary were the State Museum, Children's Museum, NCAA museum, The Indy 500 track and Museum and the Zoo.  As we were flying into Indiana and we were asking for advice for other places to see or things to do, all people kept saying was "you came to Indiana?  For vacation????"  The more people said this, the more nervous I got, but I have to tell you, they couldn't be more wrong!  We had a phenomenal 5 days!

Our first day started a little rocky.  In my mind vacation is about resting and relaxing, so we didn't get moving until 10:30.  We headed out of the hotel and hit up the State Museum.  Based on the website, I assumed this would be a full day trip, but figured, in case it wasn't we would hit up the zoo or the NCAA museum if we finished early.  Unfortunately, life in Indiana is a little slower paced than in upstate NY.  While we loved the State Museum, it only took us 3.5 hours to get through and so we headed out looking for an option for our afternoon.

The NCAA museum is closed on Mondays.... the zoo closed at 4:00 and it was already 2:30......what had been a great start to day 1 was quickly becoming rounds of "this is supposed to be fun mom", " now what are we going to do mom?" and so I had to find a quick solution......new city......my idea.....let's go for a drive and see where life takes us!

Thankfully, in downtown Indianapolis there are tons of major sports teams.  We drove by the Colts stadium,  the Packers Arena and stopped in to see the Indianapolis Indians stadium.  I am not a major sports fan, but seeing a stadium is a pretty cool deal!  I think I was likely way more excited than the boys!

As we then wandered through Downtown Indy, we realized life closes there around 4:30.  While looking for the State house, we accidentally wandered into the court house ( one is located at 200 WEST Washington Stand the other is located at 200 EAST Washington St.  I am certain I cannot be the only one to make THAT error!

In talking to one of the security guards I realized that during Jacob's adoption proceedings the judge had been on the phone with me from the very building we were now standing in.  In Indiana the adoptive family does not have to come back to Indiana to finalize the adoption.  Given the challenges of bringing 3 young children to Indianapolis for a 10 minute court proceeding, at the time I had decided to simply attend by phone.  Now, suddenly 11 years later to find myself in the court house where Jacob had become a permanent part of my family brought up a lump in my throat. After taking in a moment to breathe in the complex emotions I was feeling, we wandered back outside and headed for 200 West Washington Street to try to get a tour of the State house.  Of course, that had now closed as well, but on our walk we stumbled upon the Observatory which is located inside the Soldiers and Sailors Monument.  While the observatory was closed, the boys loved climbing around on the monument with a group of kids and I was able to mentally add the State house and the Observatory to our list of "to do" activities for the week,  and take a moment enjoying downtown Indianapolis!

We also walked through some pretty cool shops, a comic book store with an awesome salesman with self proclaimed ADHD who kept the boys busy for almost an hour, and a store called Soda Fizz which was awesome to see!

Finally, we decided no first day in Indianapolis was done without a milkshake from Steaks and Shakes, so with amazing milkshakes in hand, we headed back to our hotel calling Day 1 a success!  The boys finished the day with a swim in the pool (or for David the hot tub), I used the chance to check out the hotel workout room, and then we took some time planning out day 2 in Indianapolis!